Life Coaching Can Be Your Life Saver
Over the last few years, life coaching has become a popular. Life coaching can be your life saver, your life line. People who are searching for ways to better their lives often seek the assistance of a life coach.
Life coaching helps people better their lives and gain greater fulfillment. As your coach, I help you identify goals and the obstacles in your way. We discover what fears might impede your process to be successful in your abilities and desires.
I incorporate the use of Hypnosis, EFT and NLP to give you the maximum essential qualities and knowledge to make the appropriate changes to your life moving forward and put the past behind you.
Life coaches help empower clients. During sessions, clients identify their strengths. Then, they use those strengths to achieve their goals and change their lives for the better.
People are often a little confused by mentoring and coaching but it’s important to note that life coaching is not instructional, but mentoring is. Life coaching does not give out answers per se, instead, you must have to help the client to find their own way. This is coaching at its best.
Life coaching is not counselling or therapy, rather, the ethos of coaching remains firmly rooted in the present. As a life coach, you will understand how the past could have impacted the present and the future if left unchecked.
The client may have been shaped by an unresolved trauma but it is how the client deals with the problems of today that will enable change or not. You can work with clients to help relieve issues that threaten to shadow their progress, but, work on their approach and mind-set as the past cannot be changed or fixed.
The present provides the opportunities for change.
Why do you need Life Coaching?
If you find yourself confused, fearful, conflicted. If you can answer yes to any of these comments, then possibly someone to discuss your issues and help you find a change in your life will be advantages:
- You are uncertain of their direction in life
- You doubt their own potential
- You want to succeed but don’t know where to start
- You feel ‘lost’ or confused.
- You have too many problems
- You are stressed
- You are unhappy with life
- You feel undervalued
- You long to work for yourself
- You feel disorganized, unfocused and uncertain.
First Sensitizing Incident
Using Chair or Gestault therapy, we access the mind, age regression, we ask the subconscious if anything happened in the past to cause the problem. This may be something that happened to you or someone close to you.
It could be something you heard or read or saw on TV. Even an early nightmare that severely affected you as a child. Your questioning will cover all eventualities until you get a response that you can work with.
We find out when it happened. For example, ‘did something happen to you before the age of 10?’ If yes, then go further back – ‘Was it something that happened before the age of 5?”, etc.
Many times in my wealth consciousness seminars, I encounter individuals who fear (Acronym for False Evidence Appearing Real), I mean really fear having lots of money. Sometimes this is from religious teaching that money is the root of all evil. But that is so misinterpreted, the love of money over all other things is the root of evil.
People often fear that if they are successful, they will be perceived to be bad, that they will be hated and they mentally block their abilities to succeed.
When the subconscious signals a precise age, we instruct you to go back to that time and review what happened, what was being said, done, felt, etc. They can go through the event several times on an unconscious level until the memory surfaces.
You may well show signs of abreaction by shivering, crying, shouting, etc. These feelings will allow the original traumatizing event to be released and aid in your recovery.
You can reassure that now these memories have surfaced into conscious awareness they will lose their power over you. You are now able to be rational about what it is they were previously afraid of. We discuss how they no longer will affect your future and we make the change and clear those deep trigger points.
You could imagine all negative feelings leaving you, floating up into a cloud that becomes black and heavy before being blown away by a gust of wind.
Or we could use an Inner Child technique, having you see yourself as adult self going back and reassure the child within you with the maturity and wisdom that you have accumulated over the years.
Or perhaps see the images on a screen and allow the screen to become smaller and fade away. Next, visualize coming face to face with whatever it was they were afraid of and notice how calm and confident they feel.
Once this has been done you can begin to receive strong positive suggestions, before bringing you out of hypnosis.
Hopefully, now you will feel a lot better about whatever it was that you were afraid of. Then we will test your reactions by deliberately putting yourself into a situation that was previously fearful.
Appointment Time
Do not be afraid to reach out to me, Mark E Wilkins, to assist you in any issues you might have. Most Hypnotherapy sessions last 2 hours and EFT Sessions are usually handled with one session.
To make an appointment, first listen to the Pre-talk and fill out he Complementary Healthcare Provider Disclosure. The use the Contact Form to request an appointment with the Bohol Hypnosis Expert.
